February 2010
I hate being a good girl sometimes. I can't ever...
My husband.
Yeah, he’s an asshole at times, but I’m a bitch at times. Yeah, he doesn’t have all the money in the world, but neither do I. Yeah, he doesn’t spend as much time with me as he wants, but the keyword here is want. He does want to, he just works.You know why he’s working? To save up for our life in the future. Not mine, not his, but ours. No shit, he’s not...
As much as I want you to suffer, as much as I want...
As much as I want you to suffer, as much as I want...
January 2010
I hate when people lie.
Look in my eyes with a straight face. You don’t even have the courage to tell me the truth, but you have the strength to tell me a lie. You think it’s protecting me, but you’re only hurting yourself. ‘Cause see, I only hurt at first, because there’s this thing called forgiveness. But after being lied to constantly, there are times when a person just can’t.....
How are we to say, “you don’t have to like me, but you will respect me”? We can’t force people to respect who we are. And most of the time, we are respected for the wrong reasons. Sure, people don’t have to like you, but it’s not that they will respect you, it’s more like they don’t have to disrespect you. Don’t expect them to follow through...
Have you ever hated someone so much that you don’t want anything to do with them? But at the same time.. You miss them? Not who they are.. But who they used to be? It’s sad ‘cause you hate them now, but even more sad when you’re the one stuck in the past, hoping that the old them will come again. You don’t know who they are now.. And you’re pretty sure they...
There's a difference between acting like an...
Same way around with “bitch.”
I'd rather have ONE real friend than a bunch of...
I make mistakes. I learn from them. I have regrets. I hold on to the past when I really care. I don’t say how I feel because I’m afraid of getting hurt. I don’t like getting close to anybody. Everytime I do, they leave. Either by death, walking out, becoming strangers, or stupid actions. I’ve loved and I’ve lost. I’ve fought and given up. I’ve believed and...
I’m a tomboy… I don’t know why girly girls have like, 15 different brushes for make up.. What?
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You don't have to play hard to get. Just don't...
Just because you have a definition for something, doesn’t mean someone else has the same definition for that something.
And though love sometimes hurts, I still put you...
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true true.
Sometimes I feel like people who lie to their significant other, their relationship lasts longer than the people who don’t. Which just proves even more that people say they want the truth, but they can’t even handle it.
And to the people who don’t lie to their significant other, that just proves how strong you guys are and how much you’re willing to work out each...
I fucking hate chain letters, texts, IMs...
I hate anything that ends with that bullshit of “if you don’t forward this to 23948374832947 people, your ______ will die,” or “you will have bad luck for __ years,” or whatever the fuck. It’s annoying as shit. A waste of space, cash, and my time.
Bad grammar gets on my nerves. I feel like a nerd -_-.
I really hate when people like the opposite sex’s music, dancing, acting, or whatever the hell their hobby is, JUST because they think they’re “cute,” “hot,” or “sexy.” I mean, it’s nice you’re trying to boost their confidence. But that’ll just crush them in the end ‘cause they’re not learning, ‘cause they’re...
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I hate when people ask me something over and over. If I said ‘no’ the first, second, and third time, what makes you think I’ll say yes the more you ask? Out of annoyance? Just ‘cause I’m irritated doesn’t mean I will end up saying ‘yes.’ ‘Cause when I say ‘no,’ it means… ‘hell no.’ Now stop asking.
When you've disrespected someone so much, they're...
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Just ‘cause you portray yourself as classy, doesn’t mean you are classy. News flash, just ‘cause you act, talk, and dress like it, doesn’t mean you are. You are classy when you keep your legs closed, keep your clothes on, and know when to walk away from a situation.
Fuck pick up lines. I’d rather have you speak from your heart, not your mind or your hormones. Pick up lines make me laugh. Not ‘cause they’re “cute.” ‘Cause a majority of them are stupid. Just saying.
I feel like Tumblr's a soap opera sometimes -.-
Types of ineffective listening
From my communications class. This is worth sharing. We’re not that great of a listener as we speak. You do know that you’re guilty of being one of these. Become a great listener now.
Pseudolistening - imitation of the real thing, an act put on to fool the speaker. Pseudolisteners look at you in the eye, they may even nod and smile. But the show of attention is a polite facade because...
News flash, hearing isn’t the same as listening. You’re hearing what I’m saying, but you’re not listening to what I said. One ear, out the other.
I feel bad when I go through the contacts on my phone and come across someone’s name, and don’t even remember who they are.
Sometimes I wonder if you have a brain, ‘cause you don’t think about what you’re saying/about to say or do.
I'm not your driver, don't always rely on me to...
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After class today, Chef Bob was going over what went wrong and what not to do. This guy spoke up and said that he [Bob] puts too much pressure on us, and there’s someone better than him, which adds on more pressure. All Bob said was.. “That’s how it is.” I got a little disappointed in that, ‘cause he should have said more than that.
‘Cause of course...
“The reality of the other person is not in what he reveals to you, but in what he...”
– Kahlil Gibran
“We should all know this: that listening, not talking, is the gifted and great...”
– Brenda Ueland
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Why would you put other peoples names out there? If you fucked up, you fucked up, don’t blame it on someone else. Own up to your mistakes.
I hate when people tell me that they weren’t thinking after they’ve done something wrong. I mean, you have a mind, obviously you were thinking about it, you just don’t know why you performed the action. If you have to have a debate with whether you should do something or not, chances are it’s a bad decision waiting to be made.
It's not about growing up, sweetie, it's about...
I’ve seen 40 year old who still acts like they’re 5. Yeah, you can say you live life to the fullest, but there are times where you take it too far and become so childish. No, it’s not “grow up.” It’s “where the hell is that maturity you were talking about?” If you don’t know how to be mature, you are in no place to tell them they need to learn...
Why would anybody want to add fuel to a fire that they don’t know anything about? Usually ‘cause they love how other people react, and sometimes a fight breaks out. Some people say that they hate when a fight breaks out, but yet they run to the location with their phones, videotaping it and cheer them on. “Oh daaaaaaaamn! Beat that ass, beat it!” I don’t think...
I hate instigators.
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What I want to happen, doesn't. What I don't want...
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I hate when I’m upset, people have the audacity to ask me the stupidest questions ever, “are you okay?” No, I am not okay, if I were okay, I wouldn’t be crying! “When are you gonna get better?” Wtf? I can’t put a limit on how long I can be sad for, what the hell?!
Team means TEAM, not "myself."
You didn’t do the work all by yourself, we all worked on it together. Obviously there is no “I” in team. Yeah, there is a “me,” but that ”me” pretty much means you are a part of the group. It doesn’t mean it’s just YOU. I’d like to see how well you can do things all by yourself without the help of others. When someone messes up, WE ALL...
I love my best friend. I’ve been cooped up in my room since the bad news about Jack and haven’t been talking to anybody but Hubby. She came over and got me roses, and made me feel better. First time I laughed ever since. <3
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I define my tattoos. I don't let them define me.
A lot of people have stereotypes about a person, and one of them is depending on where their tattoos are located. So far, I only have two. One on my right shoulder, and one on my lower back. The ones on your lower back gets the most stereotypes. That if a girl has a tattoo there, a lot of guys have seen it, ‘cause she’s a slut/whore. Guess what? I’m classy and reserved, the only...
